Six Jewish churchgoers, who felt disconnected with the established Jewish community because of their sexuality, formed Beth Chayim Chadashim, a GLBT synagogue in Los Angeles, the first in the United States and the first GLBT synagogue to become a member of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations. Also, the synagogue was the first religious congregation to write a gender-neutral prayer book, which eventually served as a model for Reform Judaism.
Judaism is a dispersed religion that includes three branches—Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox. The Reform movement of Judaism is the most receptive and is committed to gender issues and inclusive language. In the early 1970’s, a fear of and hostility toward gays and lesbians in society in general was not uncommon, and organized religion was certainly no safe haven. In fact, many people felt unable to practice their Judaism in a synagogue for fear of being outed as gay or lesbian to family or employers.
There were no organized Jewish places of worship in the early 1970’s that provided outreach to the GLBT community. This would change, however, as six individuals who were Jewish investigated their common bonds at a meeting at the Metropolitan Community Church
Encouraged by Reverend Troy Perry, minister of MCC, the Jewish group discussed organizing a synagogue. They had a difficult time attracting a rabbi to their new synagogue, however, so the worshipers led their own Sabbath services. Rabbinical interns from Hebrew Union College would later come to lead the group.
In 1973, in order to distinguish itself from MCC, the Metropolitan Community Temple took the name Beth Chayim Chadashim (BCC), which means “house of new life” in Hebrew. The name is symbolic of the giving of new life to GLBT Jews, who had no religious home to call their own. BCC wrote religion’s first gender-neutral prayer book, which eventually served as a model for all of Reform Judaism.
In 1974, the synagogue became the first GLBT synagogue to become a member of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations
In 1977, the synagogue purchased a permanent building; it then hired its first rabbi, Janet Marder, in 1983. Their first full-time rabbi was Denise Eger
At its inception, the idea of a GLBT synagogue was innovative, radical, hotly debated, and unsupported by most Reform Judaism leaders. Since the formation of Beth Chayim Chadashim, approximately thirty other GLBT synagogues have formed in the United States. BCC was soon followed by Congregation Beth Simhat Torah
As mainstream synagogue membership becomes more blended, gay and lesbian synagogues may fall out of favor. Synagogues with a predominantly GLBT membership have straight, gay, or lesbian rabbis, just as synagogues with a mostly traditional membership have gay or lesbian rabbis. Clearly, the gay or lesbian rabbi in a GLBT synagogue does not have the same burden as a gay or lesbian rabbi in a traditional synagogue of convincing his or her congregation that he or she comes as a spiritual leader with no other agenda.
As society continues to accept lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender persons, the lines of distinction between who is homosexual or bisexual or who is heterosexual begin to blur. Furthermore, it is the presence of an educational component, and not the rabbi’s sexual orientation, at a given synagogue that often determines its attractiveness to, especially, parents of school-age children. Parents, GLBT or not, with children tend to be drawn to synagogues with a Hebrew school.
In 1980, the World Congress of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Jews: Keshet Ga’avah
The Reform and Reconstructionist movements have been at the forefront of change and inclusiveness within Judaism. Conservative synagogues vary in their level of acceptance. As of the early years of the twenty-first century, no Conservative GLBT synagogues existed. Though there are gay and lesbian Conservative rabbis, they are not ordained if they are known to be gay or lesbian. The Orthodox movement does not train women as rabbis, and, currently, it does not allow out gays in leadership roles.
The impact of the formation of BCC is simultaneously monumental and incremental. It was a monumental event in that BCC was the first to consider breaking from the accepted constraints of Judaism, as it had been known. Forming the first GLBT synagogue did not come without resistance from established Jewish leaders, yet BCC garnered support in places it had not fathomed. Membership into the UAHC, specifically, marked a huge step that paved the way for the formation of other GLBT synagogues. BCC’s formation is an incremental event in that gay and lesbian rabbis still need to consider if they will be out as gay or lesbian and if “straight” congregations will accept them.
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